Think gay dating is hard? Try navigating it with a pocket full of terrible advice. In this episode of Hot Air, Joshua Robert dives into the 5 worst gay dating tips we’ve all heard—stuff passed down from friends, family, hookup culture, and social media that does more harm than good. From “you have to pick a role: top or bottom” to “gay relationships never last,” we unpack where this bad advice comes from, why it’s toxic, and how to reframe it into something that actually helps.